cont..
finally, in our prayer mention again the names with reference to their mothers' name again.
WHY ALL THESE?
The name with reference to the mother's name is a direct fast-track address to our beloved's soul. Likewise in this world if we would like to send a parcel, it should be the correct address with the right name, or else we couldn't claim the parcel as ours.
It isn't enough to say we love our dead beloveds if we couldn't spend a little time to do this, once a week.
this is LOVE.